First to answer the getting checked out part. HECK YES!! BTW - Pat was just released by her cancer surgeon. She has now passed the magic 5 year mark.
Yes, hoopsie, I do remember meeting your aunt. Sorry to hear of her cancer. I will not be surprised if, at 86 years of age, she decides to forego treatment. It certainly can be very hard on anyone, but moreso on the elderly.
I pray that she makes the right decision for herself, and that you (and the rest of your family) have the courage to support her, no matter what she chooses. You are in my prayers, friend.