Maybe, as an outsider, it is not a good time to come here and talk, but I believe you guys are being too harsh on your team.
Kings actually didn't do wrong much. If you look at the stat line you'll see that you have as many rebounds as Lakers had, less turnovers, more shots... but their shots fell in while yours did not. When we won against Lakers, we didn't play much different than your style. The only difference was we have an offensive player on Kobe rather than a defensive specialist, which balances Kobe's scoring and makes him work on the defensive end as well so gets him tired.
We were a bit more aggressive on the boards, but we have also given open 3 point shot looks to Lakers. If you look at our game, you'll see that they have taken 26 3 point shots, converting 7 of them. In your game, they again took 26 3 pointers, but this time they converted 12 of them. When the opposing team starts to hit their outside shots, you have no choice but to extend your defense, which opens more offensive rebounding opportunity for the opposing team, but they mostly didn't need it, because they scored in their first attempt most of the time. Props also go to Lakers here for their well balanced attack and nice ball movement. Lakers got only 8 offensive boards while you got 15. Extending the defense helped Lakers big men though. Odom was able get one on one with Weber and his lateral quickness caused Webber problems. You couldn't help Webber, because then the ball would be kicked out and they'd score a 3 pointer. In our game, when Odom got the ball, aside from his defender we had always one other guy going back and forth like a jo-jo so that Odom cannot put the ball on the floor. If he passes, so what...
Meanwhile, when you guys were attacking, you also got many open looks, not that the Lakers defense was disturbing you a lot. But somewhere in the game your shots decided not to get in anymore. Seriously, check the shots you were taking and the Lakers taking. You won't see much difference. When this happened, you had to try to get your points inside (You took only 17 3 pt shots and you have better shooters), but Lakers put more bodies in the paint. Since you could not hit from outside as well, this worked very well for them. They crowded their defensive board thus giving you less second chance opportunities. And no, you couldn't have also 5 guys in the paint, because when that happens and if you miss the board it is going to come back to you as a fast break which will be even more frustrating.
Just a thought.