I think when you accept bad behavior, which is not the same thing as condoning it, you first have to decide what is bad behavior? In general, bad behavior is based on societies accepted principles, or in this case, the NBA's accepted principles or rules. Not much logic is required. You either abide by them, or you don't. Of course as fans, we may have different principles that we go by. Hitler certainly had different principles, which eventually he imposed on the people of Germany, and tried to impose on the world. But I digress! And by the way, for the extremists out there, I'm not comparing Cousins to Hitler.
My point is, for a time, Hitler was a winner, and as a result, the people of Germany looked the other way. Winning at any cost isn't necessarily a good thing. It depends on what your willing to give up besides the price of a ticket. The people of Germany were willing to give up a huge piece of their humanity, which didn't work out so well for them in the end. Once again, I'm not comparing Kings fans to the people of Germany, I'm using an extreme example to compare how loosely we hang on to our personal principles.
There's nothing more frustrating than a bait and switch. And that's what Cousins is, and has been for a long time. I, like many others, have hoped that with time, those things would correct themselves. However, I've come to believe that Cousins has manipulated us beautifully. He has us to a point where were willing to excuse anything he does for fear of losing him. We worry about trading Gay, because if might upset Cousins. Or losing Rondo to free agency next year because it might upset Cousins. We need to get rid of Karl, because Cousins doesn't like him. People are upset because Cousins doesn't get enough touches. There's probably someone that's upset with Casspi for taking as many shots as he did, because those are shots Cousins should have taken. When everything on a team is about just one player, you no longer have a team. Tyreke didn't fit with Cousins, Tyreke is gone. IT didn't fit with Cousins, IT's is gone.
Believe me, I get it. You try and do everything possible to bring out the best in your star player. But as a result, you expect that player to reward with great play, and hopefully good conduct. Otherwise, what's the point? Personally, and I have nothing to base it on other than obversation, I think Cousins is trying to be a good boy and play in Karls system, but his heart isn't in it. You can't on one hand complain about the teams poor defense, and on the other hand jog back on defense. If you really want to win, you can't stand and argue with a ref, while play is going on. Not if you really care about winning and about the team. You do that when you only care about yourself. Sorry, but I'm a team guy. When you quit because everything isn't going your way, you lose me.