I sometimes think people only hear, or read what they want to read. I understand perfectly why they're (to use your term "bickering"). I was merely replying to your inference that the fans have to please the owners. As I've stated, I have no dog in this hunt. I just want it settled, and it should have been settled by now. The last deal offered by the owners, in my opinion, wass a fair deal. Both sides have given, and both sides would like to have more. I've read the deal from top to bottom, and if I was a player, and I was looking at the alternative, I would have agreed to what was in the deal, but I would have wanted to keep negotiating on the second level items.
I happen to love basketball. Therefore I have a selfish interest in having a season. My reference to people of lesser means, was not a reference to starving people around the world, but to the average joe blow, many of whom are on a limited income, like myself, that have a hard time understanding or sympathizing with either side in this debate. These people are called the fans. And you seem to put the fans into nothing but a recieving or accepting position in the outcome of this debate. The NBA is what it is, because it went to a star system. It was a great idea, but also a dangerous one. If you percieve Melo as a great player, great teammate, generally all around good guy, your inclined to buy tickets or watch him on TV. But if you percieve him as a great player, but also as a selfish, all about me, and screw the rest of you type player, then your going to lose some of those fans.
We live in a world of perception, and many times perception built on lies or misconceptions. These things matter! How many people didn't want the Kings to draft Cousins, based on the perceptions they had of him.? Some of which were true, but many that wern't. My point is, that the average fan may take some interest in the negotiations, but in gereral, they just want to watch some basketball, and don't understand why there isn't an agreement. And most importantly, don't care whose right or wrong, or whose winning or losing. There are a lot of people that just see both sides as rich greedy people arguing over who gets the biggest piece of the pie. When you start arguing over millions of dollars, you lose the average fans compasion.
I grant you that you and I may see it differently, but I don't think its a good idea to forget who ultimately pays the bills, or take them for granted. And taking them for granted is exactly what both sides are doing. As the great man of wisdom Clint Eastwood said in one of his movies. "Tomorrow is promised to no one."