I listened to C-Dave on his show this morning. I'm still not entirely convinced that the confrontation was suspension worthy. I get that it wasn't a friendly chat at all. And yes Cousins should never have left the locker room. Still for me, a nasty confrontation does not equal an elbow to the throat in punishment. Just fine the guy and give him the appropriate lectures on acting mature.
I also heard from Sam Amick that part of the players association's argument is that there were very few witnesses and they were all Spurs TV crew who provided input to the league on the incident. So the league didn't exactly get any unbiased witness reports. These are the same guys that do over the top homerism for a living. And no I don't think they can separate themselves from what they do.
I also detected from some of this media response a definite "butt-hurt" tone. They like their license to rip players if they feel the need. They consider as long as the player is cashing a big check, then it's all fair game to take free shots. And they get a lot of backing from all directions to be able to exercise that freedom. If they are allowed to tell it like it is when it comes to the team, then us consumers are certainly allowed from time to time to tell them they need to check themselves.
The problem with this entire thing is, we don't really know what happened, and apparently were not going to be told. All we know is that the report says it was a hostile confrontation. Whatever that means. Obviously they had a heated conversation, but unles Cousins threatened Elliot with bodily harm, I see no need for a suspension. When in this country did it become illegal to disagree with someone, other than a referee. Was it a stupid move by Cuz? Yeah, probably! Everything he does is looked at under a microscope, and then enlarged beyond lifesize. He knows that, and so he has to fight the impulse born of emotion.
Of course its easy for me, and everyone else not named Cousins to say that. We don't live in the fishbowl that he lives in. As someone on twitter said, it was reported that Cousins just spilled a cup of coffee in the clubhouse, thats got to be worth a one game suspension. Everything he does is exaggerated. He's costantly criticized for complaining to refs, or for his facial expressions. Have any of you paid any attention to Duncan's facial expressions when he thinks he's the victum of a bad call. How about Pau Gasol? We act like Cousins is somehow unique in his actions. Watch some other NBA games and you'll ba amazed how many players become dramatic when they object to a call.
But we're talking about Cousins aren't we? So it has to be worse doesn't it? Look, there's no doubt that he's brought a lot of this on himself over the last 5 or so years. He came to us with a reputation. I get that. And we keep saying that he needs to grow up. To aquire some maturity. Gee, I wish I knew where that store was when I was 22 years old. Here's the thing, by saying that he needs to become more mature, were acknowledging that to a large extent, he's not! So maybe the press should exercise some maturity when writing about him instead of looking for a whipping boy. Perhaps the Kings orginization should exercise some matuity in dealing with him.
I don't blame Smart for dodging questions about the issue. He's developed a good working relationship with Cousins, and the last thing he wants to do is lose his trust. But where the hell is Petrie? We've heard narry a peep from him. Or anyone in the orginization. Is the orginization wearing blinders? As stated above, the only witnesses were from the Spurs broadcast team. Where were the Kings security personal. So far, the only comment from the Kings orginization is no comment! What a wonderful mess!