After seeing Dirk's playoffs, I'm not willing to go out on a limb for him right now as getting it done either.
But in any case, this dissatisfaction is largely situational. Its attached to $$ and role. If Peja was the #3 guy to Shaq and Wade in Miami he wouldn't be any less soft, but it wouldn't be nearly as damning and you'd be damn excited to have him in that role. Tremendous team in that case, and mutliple other studs to take care of the winning. If Peja was set to earn an MLE contract Peja wouldn't be any less soft, but for that price you would have one of the true bargains in the NBA, soft or not (and no, I'm not arguing Peja is an MLE player, quite the opposite). And while I might still trade him to bring back a star who could truly lead us in return because we have few other tradeable assets, there would certainly be a lot less pressure to trade him because you were getting good bang for your buck and would still have money to go get the guy or guys you needed to really put you over the top. But now you take Peja, and he's not a #3, but a #1, and he's not an MLE, he's a max player, and you have abruptly entered the realm of parody. A player who is a brilliant acquisition as the third best player on your team for the MLE becomes a severely overpaid player incapable of carrying you when it matters as a #1 at max, and with a $$ deal that actually chokes your ability to acquire a player who can do those things for you. Same Peja. Same limitations. But a radically different level of concern over them.
Now is that Peja's fault? Maybe, maybe not. It is ofttimes hard to separate Peja's wishes from those of his rabid boosters. His worst boosters have always wanted him to be a #1 and to get paid the max almost regardless of whether it is good for the team or not. If that is also Peja's desire -- if he has pushed to be a #1, to get paid the max, to pretend to be "the man", then it is ABSOLUTLEY Peja's fault. He is taking what he has not earned with his play, does not deserve with his work. May even, under such a scenario, have tanked a season to engineer the removal of his main competition for the spot. If THAT's true, then Peja deserves every last ounce of heat he receives until such time as he sucks it up, grows a pair, and starts playing, and working, and leading, like a #1 player actually worth the max.
Now if, on the other hand this is more or less an accident. If Peja would welcome getting a real #1 in here ahead of him to take the load off. If he's going to ask for the max and get it, but because that's the market not because of greed and ego, if he knows what he truly is and is not, and is at peace with that, then no, its not Peja's fault. But the problems it poses are just as real for the Kings as if it were. In that scenario the fault lies with a front office irrationally enamored of Peja for non-basketball related reasons, and perhaps it lies with some of his most rabid boosters for falsely ascribing aggressive and ugly motives to their favorite player because of their own need for him to succeed. And in some ways that makes it actually WORSE for the Kings, because then it means that in all liklihood you have a front office unwilling to take action to correct things.
In either case, the Kings, the franchise, the fans, have a major problem now with what to do with Peja, and its still a problem whether its Peja's fault or not. On the court, there are still other ways to get better other than trading Peja, but off the court, financially, that looming max really puts the Kings over a barrel. You do it, and it may end up defining the Kings' financial situation for the next half decade because its going to be extraordinarily hard to get anybody to trade you value for an aging and maxed out Peja, and that's assuming he stays relatively healthy and does not start to fade with age. And that's a 100% legit concern, and its got nothgin to do with Peja good guy, or Peja bad guy. Its Peja = $15mil #1option??