I mean, what world has he been living in since the Shaq trade? Isn't it obvious the Lakers are rebuilding? Isn't it obvious he was thrown under the bus for the Shaq trade? What in the world has changed to prompt all this ridiculousness?
The main thing that gets to Kobe is that they made him the scapegoat for trading Shaq when it was obvious to everyone that they did not intend to pay the ridiculous amount that Shaq was asking for. It was a business decision, pure and simple.
Kobe let it slide when he re-signed in 2004 because he thought it was only the media making up stuff and, quite frankly, didn't mind being away from the shadow of Shaq. Now, that we have a Laker "insider" supposedly spouting the same stuff that makes him lose trust in the organization. It seems very likely that Kobe already had some trust "issues" with someone in the organization before this came out and the recent events just blew it open. (For all we know, this Laker insider leak may have been a result of Kobe openly asking for Jerry West thereby undermining the respect for their front office)
I see the whole "the Lakers didn't tell me that they were rebuilding" stuff as a retaliatory knee-jerk reaction that most (immature) people would do if they are blamed unjustly. Once you lose a little trust, you just question
everything about what the organization has promised you. Add in the fact that (a) the Lakers have not rebuilt as much as he would have liked (despite his pleas for players who could/could not have been acquired), (b) the recent stinging disappointment from yet another first round loss, and (c) the latest insider leak insinuating that he handcuffed the front office by pushing Shaq out of L.A., you can understand where he is coming from. It explains the "they lied to me" sentiment but it doesn't make the statement right though.
The Lakers
may be able to salvage the situation if they (a) communicate with Kobe acknowledging his work and asking him to keep off the media about personnel matters (if he wanted Jerry West, ask Dr. Buss for it!) and (b) suitably reprimand or weed out the "insider" -- you can have a not-so-bright athlete spouting off to the media but you absolutely cannot have an inside personnel dealing with issues in the media.
Worst case, the Lakers have to trade him but they can still get some All-star in return with expiring contracts or picks to make them significant players in the FA market in the foreseeable future. L.A. is a very lucrative market for players if the purse strings are loosened a little bit (or from freed cap space from expiring contracts). Losing one of the best players in the game is tough but it isn't going to sink the franchise.