When it comes to the growth of our team, no its not better to lose by twenty. When it comes to my personal welfare and not moving myself a step towards killing myself, then yes, i would rather lose by twenty. These types of losses kill me inside, especially when all the other fans go around saying we suck and the next game against us is gonna be easy, because all they see is the big fat L instead of how hard we played.Then im like, ok yay, they won't be expecting much and we'll surprise them the next game, and it turns out we do. We surprise them with a hard fought game they weren't expecting only to be crushed once again by a star player and a failed game winning shot and then it comes around full circle.