Your talking about a 22 year old person from a small town in Alabama. Very easy for you to say, and expect. How about you take on that role. You think its that easy to be the face of the franchise? To be the leader of the team? Do you think he was just born with those attributes? Or do you think he should have them just because your a fan, and you expect them. When he played at Kentucky, every team tried to get into his head and get him to do something stupid. They knew he had a short fuse, so they tried to light it. I saw the same thing at summer league when I was sitting behind the Pistons bench two years ago. I heard instuctions being given to try and provoke Cousins. Thats what he's up against.
Now you can sit in the confort of your home, and pontificate in a saintly manner about how he should handle it, but I doubt you, in the same situation would do much better than him. I know I wouldn't. Now does he have a chip on his shoulder? Yes, he does. He's naturally defensive and guarded, and he doesn't trust many people. Why? Because every time he trusts someone, they backstab him. Or at least thats his perception. He's a human being with feelings, and he has the same emotions we do. Except he's pretrayed on ESPN and the national media on a nightly basis. Try that one for size. It amazes me that people expect 19 and 20 year old people to perform better than they could in the exact situation, just because they happen to be talented with a ball in their hands.
Cousins has problems! Its going to take time for him to grow into his life, and become responsible. His chances of doing that increase if he has the right support. I have no problem with being critical of him when he does something thats obviously out of the box wrong. But if were going to nit pic every little thing he does, and second guess his intentions, we'll bury him in deeds of perception, with little attention to the truth.