A selfish player can't make a good coach? A guy who played in the league for 13 years won't get the player's respect because you deem him selfish? Theus did a hell of a lot more in the NBA than Scott Brooks, Kurt Rambis, and Brian Shaw. The only former player that was a possibility who possibly had a bigger name was Terry Porter. If Shaw, Brooks, Rambis, and Shaw could command respect from players because they are former players, then I see no reason why Theus is an exception.
Plus, you make it seem like all NBA players are avid historians of the game. I would be willing to bet serious money that 75% of our players no NOTHING about the playing careers/playing personalities of ANY of the potential candidates other than the fact that they played.
I'm pretty sure Bibby, Miller, Salmons, Martin etc... know little about the fact that Brian Shaw was the consumate teammate, that Brooks was a scrapper, or that Theus was "selfish." Most players admit they know little about NBA history, especially also-ran players. And if they do know, they don't care. I can imagine Bibby sitting in the locker room thinking "Man, coach was so selfish back in the mid-80s, that I am gonna dog it on the court tonight."
Give Theus a chance. I understand being angry with the decision, but to call him selfish, and to imply that will have some impact on his ability to coach players is just silly...
Actually, I think you are rather wrong on several counts heres.
Calling Theus selfish is hardly my invention, it was practically monogrammed on his socks during his career long before the internet. Everywhere he went, that was Reggie's rep, oft discussed, universally known.
And players absolutely know the history of the game...the history that was on TV. You think these basketballalholics weren't watching in the 90s? When they say they don't know the hsitory, its the actual history, the semi-legendary times back in the 60's or whatnot which oddly seem to leave little impact on dim minds.
And in case any of the players somehow did not know, they would hear. From every player, every coach, every announcer, fans, friends. And the coaches that were alternatives can namedrop like mad, show off their rings, and say with complete conviction "listen guys, I know what it takes to win, I've been around winners, I've see it happen, I've played with so and so and coached with so and so, and I busted my butt and that's why I have these". Reggie...Reggie is other. He can probably show off his knowledge of nightspots or how to play the high stakes poker the young and dumb seem to favor. But he hasn't won, hasn't sacrificed, and can speak with little conviction on those topics. Nor was he the sort of megastar that might be able to try to get by on awe alone (that rarely works anyway). It takes away from much of the ex-player advantaqe that coaches have. Reggie will entertain for a while in a shallow sort of way. But once the players dig deeper, will there be anything there? The entire "follow me because I know how to win in this league" angle is kinda shortcircuited for Reggie.
Look around the league, at the ex-players who are coaches. And the good ones almost invariably were scrappy roleplayers who won and could say "I've been there, listen to me and you will too". Not wannabe stars on losing franchises, or pretty boys, or big number for bad team types. Phil Jackson, and Pat Riley, and Avery Johnson and Jerry Sloan and Rick Adelman and Nate McMillan etc. etc. Its no more the absolute kiss of death than any other single trait, but it is another way in which this hire does not look promising. Just like during his playing days, Reggie looks better on paper to a neophyte, but that's not what normally wins. There is a do as I say, not do as I did element to this. If you ask me today who will make the better NBA coach one day, Derek Fisher or Cat Mobley (who reminds me of Reggie in some ways), the answer is unquestionably Fisher.
We'll see -- this is all just handicapping, and there is always a way for this to work out. But in the handicapping world Reggie was the wrong TYPE of player to benefit fully from the "former player" bonus. And he hasn't patched that up with any NBA experience in the long years since he retired.