I agree with you 100%. I guess I grew up in a different time. I wasn't about to shake hands with some jerk that had been talking trash the entire game. And you know what, he didn't want to shake hands with me either. All I wanted to do was beat his sorry Butt. Back then a sportsman was someone that went fishing. This will probably sound like sacrilege, but when I played in little league (yes I was young once) only the best players played. There was none of this, we have to get everyone on the team a chance to bat crap. I practiced from dawn to bouncing tennis balls off steps under street lights at night. I worked hard to become as good as I could possibly be. So I wasn't going to feel sorry for little tubby Johnny if he didn't get into the game, when he didn't put in the work to get better. If someone slid into second base with his spikes up, you could expect a fight to break out.
I know this flies in the face of everything were taught today. Now its all about being fair. Everyone getting his chance, whether he deserves it or not. I couldn't believe when I went to one of my grandson's basketball games and they didn't keep score. I mean whats the frigging point of the damm game then? Everyone is suspossed to get an equal chance. You know what? Were not all equal. Some of us are better than others at certain things. And that should be applauded, not diminished. The reason I'm saying all this, is because its this current mentality that leads people to be critical. Its the current concept of sportsmanship. I'm sorry, but if you just whipped my butt, your the last person on earth I want to shake hands with right afterwards. Because I'm already thinking about how I'm going to return the favor. Now if I run into you in the parking lot, I'll buy you a beer, or a coke if your too young. But right after I just laid all my emotions out on the floor, or on the field, I'm in no mood to make nice with the opposition just so the fans can feel good. And thats even more so if its for the whole ball of wax.
Now some of you will certainly disagree with me, and thats fine. I understand. I don't care, but I understand. You see, I don't think sports were ever intended to be fair. They were intended to be fun, and to be a reflection of life. In life you have sucesses and failures. Usually more failures than sucess. And sports are great for teaching young people how to cope with failure and hopefully, with hard work, turn those failures into sucess. But you can't accomplish that if you change the rules for some people who can't compete at the same level. Or if you don't keep score, so no one fails or suceeds, and hopefully no one gets their feelings hurt. So yeah, I'm a poor loser. And I want everyone on my team to be a poor loser. To quote Vince Lombardi once more. " Show me a good loser, and I'll show you a loser"