I considered the "he's reformed so maybe he could guide DeMarcus" angle but then you have to ask, is Zach Randolph a dramatically different person in Memphis or did the perception simply change because he's part of a winning team now? What happens if Randolph leaves a winning situation in Memphis to come here and we struggle to win games like we did this year? Why take the risk? We've all seen Joakim Noah blow up and get himself thrown out of basketball games before too. He's going to be the one to calm DeMarcus down in the middle of a game? I don't doubt that they have teammates and coaches who respect them. But if you're going to point out all of the trouble swirling around DeMarcus as evidence for why he needs a calming veteran presence and dismiss Rondo and Rudy in that role without further explanation, don't list two notorious hotheads as better alternatives.
I'll go one step further though. I agree with you that this is a troubling trend:
It's not career defining, plenty of other superstars have racked up techs like crazy (guess how many Kobe has...), but it is a concern and the idea of having a stronger veteran presence around him to keep him on a more even keel is a good one. Caron Butler being arrested as a 15 year old has nothing to do with this. He's been a model citizen in his basketball career. I don't know how much influence he can have from the bench though. Which is kindof the problem with most of the mentors we've tried. We had Reggie Evans for a little while. We had Caron Butler this year. Ideally the head coach is the one who gets him to see the big better. Next best case it's someone who can be a leader on the court as well and earn DeMarcus' respect. I don't know that he would want to come here, but Al Horford jumps out to me as a guy who everyone respects as a hard-worker and model teammate who could also be a leader on the court.
So if you really think DeMarcus
needs a veteran mentor (I agree with you that he does) let's bring in a starter who can fill that role and be a key player for the next 4 years and stay in DeMarcus' ear the whole time. We've already tried the 1 or 2 year rental at the end of their career and it hasn't worked. He's not going to absorb their personality and transform himself overnight. The entire culture around him has to change too. Let's get that veteran starter, let's get a head coach who leads by example, preaches defense, and doesn't sell out his players in the media.
And I respect Grant Napear's role in the history of this team, but I think it's time to cut him loose too. He's been
needlessly attacking our own players for years. Just find every element of negativity in the organization and eliminate it. Is DeMarcus worth that kind of effort? That's irrelevant. This is something that needs to happen with or without DeMarcus. The George Karls and Grant Napears of the world will always find another scapegoat. I don't think you give up on a franchise player until you have no choice. And re-building the organization into a positive environment will benefit us regardless of who's currently on the roster.