Let me start by saying I went back and rewatched the game. I replayed every call on cousins in the game, and I came to the conclusion that Cousins had every right to be upset. Personally, I don't think he actually fouled anyone in the entire game. But it is what it is. I'd really like the ref to explain to me how batting the ball out of Kanters hands is a technical foul. Did the whistle blow a splitsecond before he batted the ball? Yes, but I mean it all happened in a split second, and it certainly wasn't as though Cousins was trying to do anything other than play defense.
So to be honest, if I were on the court and it happened to me, I certainly would have asked the ref for an explaination. Now whether he said something inappropiate as he walked away or not, I have no idea. But if you go back and rewatch that whole sequence, there was no foul on Cousins part at all. I realize its easy for us armchair quarterbacks to sit in the comfort of our homes and dictate what Cousins should or should not do. And, were probably correct. He needs to learn to just walk away, and let Smart or the team captain ask for the explaination.
So I have no problem with anyone being critical of Cousins actions, but I think the Ref's actions need to be criticized as well. I think its difficult for any player, not just Cousins to know how a particular ref team is going to call the game. It varies from night to night. Some let the players play, and others blow the whistle to see if it still works from 2 minutes ago. The ref's are susposed to call the game equally for every player, but we all know they don't. They have their favorites, and they have their whipping boys. Cousins has a huge target on his back. Some of it is his own doing, and some of it is undeserved. But whether its undeserved or not, he needs to adjust, and develop thick skin.
The idea of benching him is so stupid that I won't even address it. The team needs him on the floor. He needs to be a 30 plus minute a game player, and its up to him to accomplish that. He says he wants to be great! Well part of being great is being professional, both on and off the court. Doesn't mean you can't be intense when playing, but it does mean you give respect to everyone else on the court, includinig the ref's. If you want to be respected, you have to remember its a two way street. I still think he'll get there. Because he'll never be great until he does.