I don't know how to answer your questions any better than I already have. And I think this whole disagreement is becoming nothing more than an argument over choice of words. Like I said, if you don't like the term spoiled, than replace it with one that doesn't offend you so much. I think it's fitting, though, given the definition of the word.
Cal-Kings said:
I always want me team to win. And I complain when they don't. What does that have to do with being "spoiled" or "forgetting the last 8 years"?
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So, let me try to restate this. Simply because we're unhappy at losing, we're spoiled? Are un-spoiled fans happy to be losing?
What is an un-spoiled fan? "Hooray! We're losers! I'm just grateful we won in the past."
Do you really know these un-spoiled fans?
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How are you evaluating that "collective fans" are "out of touch"? What constitutes "out of touch" in your opinion and how is a fan supposed to act who is "in touch"?
Keeping in mind that we were a top team in the League for the better part of a decade, that few teams had as much success as we had during that period, and even fewer had more successes, fans have to realize that it's not realistic to expect greatness every single year. Of course, we do, and that's why we're fans, because we want our team to win every single game. 8-0 in the preseason, 82-0 in the regular season, 16-0 in the playoffs. Every year. We expect our team to be good enough to win every single game, because we care about the team. And when the team is not good enough, we're disappointed. And that's not reality; it's fanaticism, or being a fan.
In the case of Kings fans, many of them have cheered and booed through good seasons and bad ones for two decades. Thirteen losing seasons. Then an amazing stretch of eight years when we make the playoffs, even make some noise in the playoffs, and expect to win a championship. Felt like we
deserved a championship, were cheated out of a championship, robbed. Then things start looking worse as the team begins to dissolve. And we never got what we felt we had earned as a team, as fans of a team. And now, after being terrible and fighting up to the top, we are at the bottom again, with our hands empty.
Of the entire NBA fan base, only 13% of fans have seen their team win a championship since the Kings started their 8-year run. A number of teams have missed the playoffs every single year during that run; even more teams only made it once or twice. What we witnessed as Kings fans was special, and I think that some people became so disillusioned with the idea that we should have been NBA Champions during that run that they are overly disappointed, sometimes even bitter, that we didn't get there. But the
reality is that most teams don't get where we got. And a lot of fans don't seem to realize that what we had was rare for a professional franchise.
And that's what I mean when I say "out of touch". It's not a put-down or an insult. People just forget that the good ol' days, while gone, were special to fans of this team. The best years the franchise has ever had, and a hell of a lot better than what a lot of teams have had over that same stretch.
I don't think that means that we're bad fans, or that we didn't appreciate what we had. I think we got used to expecting more, and don't realize that we once only dreamed of being a perennial playoff team. A couple years of sub-par basketball isn't the end of the world. And while we suffer through these sub-par years, we
should remember fondly the good times, instead of feeling like we didn't get enough.
Again, it's not an indictment of the fan base. It's just being a fan. Ups and downs, smiles and frowns.