Maybe this really is a cow town since so many people get their danders up so easily.
If getting bugged by an attention hogging, "its all about me" person; if getting really tired of hearing all about poor little Ron-Ron and all his troubles rather hearing about my team; if expecting a 27 year-old man to grow up and be responsible for what he says and does is cowtown, then so be it.
I have never,
ever called Ron a bad guy. I'm pretty sure that Ron's intentions are almost always good. I know most people that know him say he is a great guy. On a personal, human level, I feel deep compassion for Ron and his family and all the problems they have.
But its wrong when people around him are forced to bear the burden of his problems. None of the recent "Ron issues" is new, not the dogs, not the domestic violence in the household, none of it. It went on in Indiana, too.
Off the court behavior most certainly affects the team. Everybody in the Kings organization has had to expend a lot of time and energy dealing with the myriad issues that Ron brings. Trying to support, help, or be friends with someone like Ron is exhausting and endless. It's only worth it, if the person shows some signs of actually changing.
There are reasons why people act the way they do and often have serious problems. Reasons shouldn't be mistaken for excuses.
The bull in the china shop doesn't mean to smash all the dishes, but the dishes are all smashed nonetheless. At least the bull has a real excuse, he can't choose to change.