So, I've spent the better part of the last three hours poring over every single post you've made on this message board with the username RookieOfTheDay... And it turns out that things didn't really transpire as you claim they transpired. What actually happens most often is you post your opinion/view on something, and someone makes an argument against it, and then you call them deluded/accuse them of wearing rose-colored glasses/etc., and then people call you negative/pessimistic/troll, etc.
You're either being disingenuous or just have an innate penchant for oversimplification and or distortion. You’re spinning it (or maybe you’re honestly seeing it) as if what’s happening is that people make valid/legitimate arguments and I merely respond with insults. The very notion of which is pure hogwash. I always provide reasons for why I have the opinions/views that I have.
Many people simply don't seem to grasp what opinions/views are. They think their own opinions/views are facts. That leads them to dismiss other people's opinions/views as being "incorrect" if they don't fall in line with certain parameters, a general consensus, etc. That's what compels people to react with annoyance/dismissal to certian opinions/views like, say, "The Kings should have tried to get Rudy Gay". They think "The Kings should have tried to get Rudy Gay" is factually/objectively false so they can't accept that someone would have that view/opinion. So when they encounter that opinion/view, they respond with things like “You just don’t know basketball”, “You’re wrong they were smart not to get Rudy Gay”, “Rudy Gay wouldn’t have helped the team that much” etc.
The reason the respond in that way is because they believe that (or whatever) opinion/views are factually/objectively wrong/false.. If they didn't believe that, they wouldn't be responding in ways that indicate a belief that certain opinions/views are wrong/false.
There really was only one occurrence of somebody saying something inflammatory to you that wasn't precipitated by you saying something inflammatory first
Obviously subjective and down to interpretation. I try and conduct myself by the "treat others as you'd have them treat you" rule. The only time I generally break that rule is if I don't like the way someone is treating/responding to me. If I feel someone is responding in a snippy, condescending, know it all, etc. manner, then I respond accordingly. As I said though, that's all based on subjective interpretation, obviously.
I find your claim that you never "seek people out" to be somewhat specious, as that isn't what you stand accused of. I have accused you of not letting people live, as you claim that you do, and of calling people deluded for having a positive point of view, as if reality precludes one from looking at things from the "glass half-empty" side. And your track record here shows that you are, in fact, guilty of what I have accused you of.
The only way it makes sense to me that you'd arrive at that conclusion, is if you're approaching it from a perspective that basically says the only way to accept opposing views, is to either agree with them, or keep your disagreement to yourself. That seems like a pretty crass way of looking at it. Of course I'm going to defend my views, point out where I think opposing views are wrong, etc. when confronted. That doesn't conflict with not seeking people out to correct them, or not accepting that other people can have differing opinions/views.
and just the fact that you've made me have to defend the positive point of view puts you on my **** list...
Oh no, not that. Anything but that, LOL.