nbrans said:
Hey now, just because I live in New York doesn't mean I don't go to games. I've only been in New York for a few years and even still I manage to get to 3-4 games a year.
I guess maybe I'm not cut out for the message board world if it's such a locus of negativity. I'm all for cathartic expressions of angst, but man, this board, which used to be such a great, positive Kings community has just gotten so pathetically down about everything Kings-related that it's ceased to be much fun to visit. There's nary a sign of optimism or hope or hey, they'll pull through even if this isn't the year. Instead it's this person sucks and this person should be traded and fire this person and that person.
I guess I'm just making a lonely plea for a little bit of optimism and patience and actual basketball-talk amidst the angst.
I understand, believe me I do... As far as my comment about you not attending games, I was referring in particular to the past couple of years when things have just subtly but slowly changed at Arco...
There are a lot of negative comments because the whole atmosphere in Northern California - at least among Kings fans - is really down. If you notice, people will start positive threads only to have them hijacked by the people who can't wait to make another trade proposal or talk about firing Adelman or try to figure out who should be starting, since player A clearly sucks.
The optimists are still there. I'm actually optimistic about the long-term future of this team, although I'm not looking at any real chance of much to cheer about in the near future.
At one point, I used to be accused of being Pollyana - of only seeing the good side and never letting the negative side be expressed. Ironically, now I'm perceived as one of the negative thinkers and I'm not. I love this team. I will love this team as long as I draw breath. It is, if anything, WAY too much a part of my being. I have cancelled family plans because of conflicts with games. I cry when I think of Doug's last phone call with Grant Napear. I sob when I think of the picture of CWebb, his back to the camera, holding up the "V" sign as he walks towards the plane to leave Sacramento...
Those memories will always be mine. This team will always be mine. I can survive these bad times because I know in my heart the good times will come again. And that doesn't mean winning so much as finding a combination or players that will again put forth the effort the gives us goose-bumps. It may take a while, but it will come again. And, because I know that, I can weather the times right now ...
It is, bottom line, just a game but it's the game I've loved for over 40 years and I'm not alone. There are a lot of people here who are optimistic about the long-term but feel perfectly okay in being a little pessimistic about the right-now. It's all good, IMHO.