Eighty-two games is a lot basketball, and the NBA is much more physical than people realize. I like Kingster's posts that talk about basketball warfare. It is really mental warfare. Confidence and dominance are hard to get and easy to lose on the floor. Cousins is young and he is immature for his age. His style of play which is very horizontal or lateral, works against him. He plays through people down low, takes charges and likes to mix it up. He has spent his whole life being the biggest, strongest guy out there. There are plenty of people in the NBA his size and many that are stronger. It pisses him off. IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE A PHYSICAL TYPE PLAYER, YOU NEED TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND POINT AT THE SCOREBOARD.
I was an under-sized center and forward in high school and industrial leagues. We played street ball for money. It takes a lot of attitude to play under those conditions. It is alright for the emotion to be there, but you have to control it. Rebounding as an example, is mostly about position. You have to own the spot where you think the ball is going to go. Rodman is a flake, but the greatest rebounder in history, because of hard work and his willingness and desire to own spots on the floor.
There are two types of players that Cousins cannot mentally handle. One type is the physical, banger, get in the way type of player that makes contact all the time. Gortat is a really big angular guy that is hard to move. Humphries is not as big but has great lower body strength. The second type is Howard. The new and improved version of this guy has a left hand, good footwork, and he can jump. He gave Cousins fits and made him look bad. I contend that Cousins has a huge ego, and cannot stand to look bad. That is why so many unremarkable plays hit nerves with him and make him act out.
Cousins was left off the all-star team because of his weak character, not because of his ability or lack of it. Moving forward, he would benefit from some sessions with a psychologist to figure where his rage really comes from.ie he resents authority (refs), he feels inferior because of his upbringing, he pouts when others make him look bad, etc. etc. He needs to play Shaq one on one for about 2 1/2 hours and then listen to what Shaq has to say to him. Everyone, especially the FO knew they were taking a gamble to give Cousins his contract. He needs to grow up or play somewhere else. Personally, I would be willing to consider trading Cousins if it meant hanging on to Rudy Gay.