I don't buy this one because they didn't bother to stand up to the Cs at all and you enjoyed the result of that more than I did.
From where I was watching, it didn't look like it was the Lakers who were flustered. Ask Ron/Wafer in the jacuzzi and Scola who had guys in his face at every direction.
You're praising the Rockets as a physical team. They should take it back as they give it, though I know you'd appreciate it if LA just let them lean, hack, put their hands in shooters' faces, and tug on jerseys in the paint all night.
1) You're ignoring the facts surrounding this situation. Kobe threw an elbow at Artest while battling for a rebound. He hadn't been getting leaned on and pushed around by Artest all game, because he and Artest hadn't been matchup up all game. His elbow, whether retaliatory or not, was unnecessary and not a normal basketball play. While it pales in comparison to Fisher's thuggery, it was still a foul, and it fits in with Kobe's pattern of taking shots at players who get physical with him.
2) The Celtics got away with a lot of physical play against the Lakers in the Finals last year. It was either Game 2 or Game 3 that I couldn't even enjoy because it was so slanted for the C's. And the fact that the Lakers didn't bother to stand up to them is the reason that they have the reputation of being a soft team that can't handle a physical defense that pushes them around.
3) The Rockets should take what they give, but it's not the Rockets throwing elbows and delivering open field body shots. The Lakers, in their attempt to be a "tough team", took it way above and beyond what can be considered clean play. This is not just giving it back the way they're getting it. Houston plays tough, physical defense, and they do grab jerseys and push and shove (nothing wrong with putting a hand in a shooter's face, that's not what you're saying is it?), but that's basketball. Kobe's elbow and Fisher's open field tackle were not basketball plays.
4) Houston was flustered, but battled back and held the Lakers to 18 points in the second quarter to tie the game by halftime. They regrouped, gathered themselves together, and didn't back down. Lamar Odom was chirping in Scola's ear everytime down the floor, and Scola decided to go ahead and talk back. Then Luke Walton and Sasha Vujacic said "let's get in this scrum too, because we're tough", and Scola was ready for all comers. Techs got handed out, then Fisher laid Scola out. The "flustered" Scola hit both free throws. Von Wafter getting sent to the bench is probably more about Adelman getting on him about taking dumb shots; he was upset after his team's Game 1 win because he went scoreless, he's a gunner, and he wanted to get his points in Game 2, and that's why he had words with Adelman. But he wasn't involved in any of the altercations with the Lakers.
5) The game was close, despite all the chippiness, until Artest got suspended, which was unwarranted. Despite the Lakers' attempt to bully the Rockets, they were in danger of losing Game 2, until the Rockets' best player last night got tossed for doing to Kobe what Odom and every other Laker had been doing to Scola and Battier all night long.
I don't know why you're acting like anyone is suggesting that the Lakers don't have the right to stand up for themselves, but last night wasn't standing up. It was thuggery.