I didn't agree with a number of his points (there are almost ALWAYS player/coach beefs on every team, doubly so for losing teams) but I do understand his overall point. No one can pretend DeMarcus Cousins is easy to work with.
he's not, but does that really matter? like, at all? who among superstars is easy to work with in the nba? was magic? was larry? was jordan? was barkley? was shaq? was kobe? was iverson? is lebron easy to work with? let's ask david blatt about that. how about russell westbrook? or james harden? dwight howard might have something to say, and he's hardly easy to work with himself. what about chris paul? the list goes on and on and on. by most accounts, demarcus is definitely tough to work with, but by most of those same accounts, he's also very
coachable, and that's the important feature to weigh here. big cuz is more than willing to listen
as long as he trusts his coach. personally, i've never found it unreasonable for demarcus to
want to respect his coach, but requiring first that his coach is straight with him. calipari and malone figured it out. also-rans like westphal and karl did not...
see, someone like stephen curry is an entirely new breed of nba superstar: utterly likable, instantly marketable, rather easygoing, whose nba dna doesn't contain an ounce of feather-ruffling. and even in his prime, a former superstar nice guy like tim duncan was so insular in his process and so singularly devoted to winning that it would be terribly easy to classify him as anti-social. but setting aside outliers like curry or anthony davis, most superstars aren't "easy" personalities. their attitudes and their competitive drive often make them inherently difficult to work with. it's just the name of the game, and most franchises are prepared to deal with it, or they learn very quickly how to deal with it...
cousins may, indeed, be more difficult than most, but this kings team was decidedly unprepared to "deal with it" upon drafting him, and they simply haven't figured it out in the time since then. i don't imagine that the lakers or the celtics would have had problems "dealing with" a difficult personality like cousins. it's in their history to get the most out of such superstars. now, it's true enough that demarcus hasn't won to the degree that other top-tier superstars have, and as always, i attribute that to a kings franchise so dysfunctional that it's inadvertently written the book on how
not to run an nba franchise across the last decade. so, if you put demarcus in a situation where he and his team are more likely to succeed (and i'm not even talking about a basketball utopia like san antonio or golden state, just a stable situation devoid of an endless barrage of organizational upheaval and dysfunction), then again i would ask: does it really matter that cousins isn't easy to work with?