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Ailene Voisin: Coach's humiliation is punishment enough
By Ailene Voisin -
Published 12:00 am PDT Sunday, October 22, 2006


Eric Musselman blew his Kings home court head-coaching debut, and he blew it badly.

That was his car that was stopped, his breath that reportedly reeked, his prints that were taken, his mug that was photographed. That was his name on the police report and his reputation being debated afterward on talk shows, in chat rooms, on the television. And this is his young and promising life, suddenly in emotional and professional tatters.

Self-inflicted wounds are always the most excruciating. The difference here is that, unlike the rest of us, NBA coaches and players conduct their penance in public. Commit a mistake such as the one the Kings coach is accused of -- driving while under the influence of alcohol -- and the penalty includes a very visible flogging. And that should be sufficient. There is no need to fire or fine him. Excluding the legal disposition of the case, there is no need for anything other than an apology to his community, his players, his organization and, most importantly, to his two young sons.

What do you say to the kids?

What could be more wrenching than that?

No, Musselman's remorse is splattered right there on his personal stat sheet, the one with all the devastating details for the entire universe to scrutinize. Arrested at 2:15 a.m. Booked at 3:14. Released at 5:51. Required to call Kings president of basketball operations Geoff Petrie at 6 and the Maloofs around noon.

"Eric was crying so hard on the phone," Gavin Maloof said on his cell phone, "that he could hardly put two sentences together. Obviously he feels terrible about this. We don't condone his behavior, but it's like I told him. He can go one way or the other. Something like this can either break you down, and you pack it in and fold up the tent, or you admit your mistakes and get on with your life. He's a tough guy. I think he's going to be fine."

Earlier in the day, however, Musselman, an intense, tightly-wound individual who demands even more of himself than he does of his players, was so distraught that team officials delayed a late-afternoon press conference until today. The Maloofs, who were preparing to fly to the NBA Board of Governors meeting in New York, hastily changed plans, and chartered a flight from Las Vegas to Sacramento to accompany Petrie and Musselman to today's session at Arco Arena.

In many respects, the timing could hardly have been worse. The incident occurred just hours after Musselman's first appearance on the sideline at Arco. The regular season starts in 11 days. The Maloofs, city/county officials and the developer have yet to finalize an agreement for the funding of a downtown arena - despite the fact voters are still being asked to vote on the pertinent ballot measures in the upcoming election.

And at least until an agreement is reached - the very existence of a legal document bolstering the family's commitment to keeping the franchise in Sacramento - uncertainty about the future of the city's only major professional sports team will continue gaining momentum, furthering an increasingly negative sentiment toward the Kings.

While Musselman's early-morning incident isn't crippling, and perhaps, even humanizes one of the city's most high-profile figures, negative news is negative news. A drunken-driving incident is dominating coverage and insinuating itself into discussions that would have been devoted to potential roster moves, Ron Artest's gritty presence, Kevin Martin's impressive performance in the exhibition home opener, or even whether Musselman's energy and intensity will be an effective contrast to Rick Adelman's more casual approach to training camp.

"I met with Eric for a while this morning," Petrie said, "and he understood right away. He understands the short-term ramifications. But what is important now is his response, his willingness to correct his behavior."

Musselman's second chance begins today.

Everybody deserves one.

About the writer: Reach Ailene Voisin at (916) 321-1208 or avoisin@sacbee.com
 
I feel like this is a very even and fair article, and it demonstrates how Muss should be dealt with. What he did was wrong; I absolutely despise drunk driving and the dangers that it presents. But people make mistakes- I am sure many people have been out to drink casually with friends, had a couple and thought they were fine (I have done it myself). That happens- it doesn't make it any better, or the person any less guilty, but it also doesn't make Muss a villain IFFFF he learns from it. If you are gonna drive, don't have any- I have learned it, otehrs have learned it, you can learn it...

Aileen is right- everyone deserves a second chance. You messed up Muss, and you are gonna have to work to repair it. And that should be your punishment- your guilt and your need to repair your reputation. The NBA and your employers shouldn't step in with additional penalities...
 
One thing I've picked up about Musselman is he is the type of person who has to feel like he's in control. This whole thing is probably more crushing to him than any of us could possibly imagine.

I agree with Voisin. Everyone deserves a second chance.
 
AV said a similar thing to what I posted in the other thread. Facing his kids and explaining it to them is going to really hurt. I can't imagine having to do that. It would be torturous punishment for me.
 
One thing I've picked up about Musselman is he is the type of person who has to feel like he's in control. This whole thing is probably more crushing to him than any of us could possibly imagine.

I agree with Voisin. Everyone deserves a second chance.

Exactly what I am thinking.

Hey, this could turn out to be one of the most positive things to ever happen to Eric Musselman. This could be one of those life lessons that could potentially change his life in a good way if it opens his eyes (and many others in the process) about driving under the influence of alcohol. I certainly hope so at least.

Anyway I support Eric is these seemingly dark times.
 
How is he going to explain this to his children? Dang that's going to be tough. He made a dumb decision when his decision making skills were impaired but I feel like he's getting too much hate.
 
How is he going to explain this to his children? Dang that's going to be tough. He made a dumb decision when his decision making skills were impaired but I feel like he's getting too much hate.

I disagree. I think the vast majority of people on this site have been very fair. I haven't seen much hate.
 
I am pretty sure he is referring to other boards in which there may not be such a high level of intellectual conversation on the subject. :)
 
Then perhaps he should clarify? I'm very proud of how the people on this board have treated this whole thing. We've managed to have a thread of over 250 posts with very little problems. And this is a pretty explosive issue.

Anyway, back to the topic at hand...

The press conference tomorrow is probably going to be hard to watch...but even harder on Musselman and the people who care about him. A very public mea culpa isn't something I could do very easily.
 
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I agree. This board has done pretty well discussing the issue without problems, at least from what I gather. And so far these articles coming out aren't total and complete bashings like I expected. Very well thought out piece by Voisin.

Of course the opinion pieces haven't started rolling in yet either.
 
Well, I very rarely agree with the Bee opinion pieces anyway, so I won't lose any sleep at all over whatever R.E. Graswich has to say...

If Musselman says what I think he will tomorrow the jackals won't have much to feed on...

I sent an email of support for Musselman to the Kings. I made it clear that while I do not condone drinking and driving, I also do not think this should be blown out of all proportion. He made a mistake; he'll pay for it. And the people who write those opinion pieces better be careful. Sacramento has a lot of people but it's still a small town. And he who casts stones better be very sure he isn't living in a glass house.
 
I'm talking about all over the web, including some here but including a lot from other places(specifically realgm...). I have read from this one dude on RGM how he should be forced to resign, fined, and forced to appologize. I agree with the possible fine(actually Maloofs said they won't) and the apology, but forcing him to resign? He made a mistake but tons of people in the US do this type of thing and they don't get fired for their first offense. Also I've read about how Bricklayer wants to beat him up, all over the web how he's possibly an alcoholic(even though this his 1st offense), etc.

I mean I don't believe drinking and driving is right. It's not. It can hurt a lot of people, from the people in the car to everybody else driving on the street or walking. I've seen a family member who IS an alcoholic get pulled over for DUI because he wasn't driving right(luckily he didn't hurt anybody). My family member's an idiot and he still doesn't think he's wrong when he drives drunk. Now Musselman knows he's wrong. He won't do it again because he knows that if he does he'll lose his job. But firing him etc. could turn him into an alcoholic, I mean it sure doesn't do anything to get him to stop driving under the influence. He's a person like you and me, he deserves a 2nd and final chance to prove he won't do it again. If he knows he can't do it again because it's his final chance and he values his job than that will stop him from doing it again, and it prevents 1 person from driving under the influence ever again.

I feel kinda bad for him. He made a very very stupid choice. But now he is going to have to deal with the humiliation, and really I feel bad for his kids because it's going to hurt them the most. I feel bad that he didn't have enough brains to stop drinking, or that he didn't have enough brains to call a cab. He put a lot of people in danger, but that's including himself and the 3 passengers in the car(why'd they let him drive???).

Hopefully he can get past this and use it to stop other people from driving under the influence. Hopefully the Kings don't get ripped too bad because he made a very bad choice.
 
I'm talking about all over the web, including some here but including a lot from other places(specifically realgm...). I have read from this one dude on RGM how he should be forced to resign, fined, and forced to appologize. I agree with the possible fine(actually Maloofs said they won't) and the apology, but forcing him to resign? He made a mistake but tons of people in the US do this type of thing and they don't get fired for their first offense. Also I've read about how Bricklayer wants to beat him up, all over the web how he's possibly an alcoholic(even though this his 1st offense), etc.

In all honesty, I think you're worrying too much about what is said on RGM.

And for the record? Bricklayer doesn't want to beat him up. I seriously doubt if Bricklayer bothers to get into fights over stuff like this.

This board isn't "all over the web". I'll say again - I'm very proud of how our members have handled the whole situation. I don't read RGM and couldn't possibly care less what they say.

If you're going to talk about the situation here, why not just worry about what's being said HERE and not elsewhere?

;)
 
I'm talking about all over the web, including some here but including a lot from other places(specifically realgm...). I have read from this one dude on RGM how he should be forced to resign, fined, and forced to appologize. I agree with the possible fine(actually Maloofs said they won't) and the apology, but forcing him to resign? He made a mistake but tons of people in the US do this type of thing and they don't get fired for their first offense. Also I've read about how Bricklayer wants to beat him up, all over the web how he's possibly an alcoholic(even though this his 1st offense), etc.

I mean I don't believe drinking and driving is right. It's not. It can hurt a lot of people, from the people in the car to everybody else driving on the street or walking. I've seen a family member who IS an alcoholic get pulled over for DUI because he wasn't driving right(luckily he didn't hurt anybody). My family member's an idiot and he still doesn't think he's wrong when he drives drunk. Now Musselman knows he's wrong. He won't do it again because he knows that if he does he'll lose his job. But firing him etc. could turn him into an alcoholic, I mean it sure doesn't do anything to get him to stop driving under the influence. He's a person like you and me, he deserves a 2nd and final chance to prove he won't do it again. If he knows he can't do it again because it's his final chance and he values his job than that will stop him from doing it again, and it prevents 1 person from driving under the influence ever again.

I feel kinda bad for him. He made a very very stupid choice. But now he is going to have to deal with the humiliation, and really I feel bad for his kids because it's going to hurt them the most. I feel bad that he didn't have enough brains to stop drinking, or that he didn't have enough brains to call a cab. He put a lot of people in danger, but that's including himself and the 3 passengers in the car(why'd they let him drive???).

Hopefully he can get past this and use it to stop other people from driving under the influence. Hopefully the Kings don't get ripped too bad because he made a very bad choice.


pople on other sites arent neccesarily big time kings fans, no matter whaa u think everyones opinion on here is atleast semi biased becasue hes our coach...keep muss, make him do like what donnie whalberg had to do with new kids on the block and do a public service awarness thingy
 
My opinion as stated here would have been the same if it was a discussion about any other coach under similar circumstances.

Musselman went out with friends, drank too much to drive and got arrested. He made a stupid and dangerous decision. Fortunately, no one got hurt, maybe thanks to Officer Begay of the CHP.

He should suffer whatever first-time penalties are usually imposed. Hopefully, he's wiser today and thank goodness he'll live to be older.

Do I think EM has a drinking problem or is an alcoholic? How the heck would I know? I certainly would NOT assume that based on this one incident. Nobody should. Its nothing but unfounded speculation.
 
I think the article is a bit premature. He hasn't even faced the public yet, nor the gauntlet of reporters questions. There is still his sentencing in a few weeks.

Unfortunately he put himself in a bad situation and will have to deal with all the awkward and uncomfortable things that will come his way. This is just the tip of the iceberg.

edit: press conference happened, but I wasn't able to catch it.
 
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Sorry, Packt, but I strongly disagree. The article came out at exactly the right time. What Voisin is saying is what most of us here have said. He made a mistake and he'll pay for it - both short and long term. There's no reason for the fans or the public in general to keep picking at the open sore.
 
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