We're collateral damage here, but we can blame him for blowing up the Milwaukee trade and if the net result is that we get nothing in return, than yeah he has kinda screwed us. Which is his right as a free agent.
I think this is what has me so frazzled and angry. This is maybe one time in recent memory where our pain isn't our own doing. I think we can ascertain a few things happened here with some degree of certainty:
1) Giannis and Bogi have some type of relationship and there was some behind the scenes recruiting taking place and that early in the offseason a Bogi to the Bucks deal seemed a likely win win for all parties. This used to be a pretty par for the course type of scenario but in recent years the NBA has tried to stop player - player "recruiting" as a secondary form of tampering. But again, a win-win deal was working out so no reason not to look the other way, compared to, oh I dunno, the situation with the reigning NBA champion 2 years ago.
2) Bucks management is below par and leaked a deal prematurely, including salary numbers, putting everything into jeopardy.
3) Atlanta had a ton of cap room and was eager to spend it before the bill on their young players comes due. They most definitely made it known to Bogi's circle they would offer more money than MIL was. This is most definitely tampering if it took place.
So essentially we got jerked over by two teams arguably tampering in the process as well as at least one organizations gross incompetence. Throw in an agent who makes Carlos Boozer look honorable and the fact that our new GM was off to what looked like a fine start, and it's all a bit much.