I think your whole post is spot-on, and a good review of Vivek's indefensible blunders that have no realistic explanation other than his incompetence.
But you used the term "self-aware" to refer to Vivek.
(I'm poking fun here, not disagreeing with hrdboild)
Have we so quickly forgotten the colossal lack of self-awareness Vivek demonstrated through his Twitter account posted by him and that hack PR college girl he had working for him?
My god, that was some of the most embarrassing and aggravating crap I've had to put up with as a Kings fan (and we've had to put up with a lot!)
Between his gushing over the Warriors team and his self-promotions, patting on the back, his clueless photo ops that rubbed Sac fans noses in his drooling over the Warriors, and his insulting of Kings fans, actually having the balls to say that WE wanted a more up-tempo exciting team (instead of one that was beating the NBA's best in early 2014 with apparently a boring defensive approach), Vivek's complete and utter LACK of self-awareness has been a long-proven flaw.